(Pictured below
from left to right: Patricia Dean, Gene Tucker, Carol Palazzotto and
Tracy Kiass)
Last year, Tammy and Howard Jones moved to Denver
from California, with their 14-year-old son Dillon, looking for a fresh
start. They relocated in hopes
of moving forward, leaving negative influences and reminders of old
patterns, which hindered them from succeeding. But when the home of the friend they
were staying with became unsafe, they were left homeless.
Happily, the Jones' found shelter at The Crossing, the
Mission's transitional housing facility. They stayed at The Crossing for six
months, where Tammy participated in life skills workshops and Dillon,
who suffers from ADHD and a mood disorder, was able to bond with the
kids and the leader of his youth group there. During their stay, Tammy and Howard
also secured full-time employment.
Now, ready to take charge of their own lives, they also
received welcome support from Family
& Senior Homeless Initiative, who paired them with Christ Church United Methodist
Church's (CCUMC) faith mentor
team, led by Carol Palazzotto, along with Patricia Dean, Gene Tucker,
and Tracy Kiass.
Family & Senior Homeless
Initiative faith mentor teams work to
help families obtain funds for a security deposit and first month's
rent on a home. To make this a reality, the CCUMC congregation
creatively hosted what Carol jokingly refers to as an "un-talent
show, called the 'Inner Beauty Pageant,'" where folks, young and
old, performed together with the single goal of helping the Jones' and
another mentored family further along the road to self-sufficiency.
The Jones family moved into their new apartment, which was
furnished and decorated mainly with items donated from the Denver
Rescue Mission. Then, the family and their faith mentors began digging
into the issues at hand. One issue was working together to discover
options which would meet Dillon's special needs and behavior issues,
and his parent's concerns with raising him. Just talking with her mentors helped
Tammy get Dillon involved in a school program that addresses his
special needs.
Another issue the Jones' mentor team handled was to help
motivate Tammy to begin her GED program, so she could prepare to enroll
in college. Right now, she works
40-50 hours a week managing a photo studio, facing a definite time
challenge as she begins pursuing more education.
The Jones' also took advantage of some other beneficial
local aid programs to ease their burden. Mentor Carol notes that she's been
grateful that CCUMC's mentor group has been able to meet the family's
emotional and basic needs in ways that many aid programs aren't
designed for. "We're not paid to be there for them. We don't have
office hours. We've chosen to befriend this family as equals, and we
can be called on in the future as friends," says Carol.
At the celebration which completed their mentoring
commitment, CCUMC mentors gathered together at a local arcade with the
Jones family for a fun and relaxed time in each other's company. "Although our official
commitment has ended, we plan to stay in touch with this family, and we
wish them every success as they forge ahead with their goals and dreams
for their new life," says Carol.
Tammy echoes this sentiment: "We really enjoyed the
camaraderie of our mentor team - they've been wonderful! It's been a great thing not being and
feeling all alone as we've begun our new life."
Thank you Christ
Church United Methodist Church faith mentors for extending true
friendship to the Jones' in their brave transition!
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